It’s My Decision
Hey friends and family this my Choice! Support me!
Many women are faced with making decisions every day. Adoption is one of the hardest decisions a woman will make for her baby. The decision is not easy, however; it is the most loving decision she will make. Adoption offers so many blessings to a child:
A precious gift to a childless couple
Another option other than abortion
Financial stability for the baby
I have observed so many birth moms that are intelligent enough to make their own decsions, make a plan of adoption only to have family members, boyfriend and or friends to pressure them to parent.
I have seen family members, kick the birth mom out of the house, threaten them, fight them , and with hold support to make them do something they really don’t want to do.
So why do other people pressure birth moms to parent a baby, knowing that she has already made her decision?
I have seen these same birth moms change their minds only to either suffer with parenting, because the support of the people that convinced her to parent has stopped. I seen these same birth moms change their minds back, go into deep depression and/or harm their baby.
When a birth parent makes that final decision to place her baby for adoption it is usually because of :
Lack of support from others
Have enough children
I think if a birth parent want the best for her baby and adoption is her choice, then support her decision.